Friday, November 11, 2011

Struggling to keep up with my friends, anyone had this experience before???(kinda long, but please help!!!!)?

2 ways to go....1. Every one is not good at certain things...there may be another sport you are better at . 2. There are all sorts of stories of someone not being the biggest, fastest, tallest one on teams and were teased, told to quit, and so on-stuck with it and became very good in that particular sport. Only you know what road you may want to travel. Now your friends...all do this to some extent, point out who's the best jumper, shooter, dribbler etc. and quite often it crosses over into territory that can be very hurtful. You either can try to talk with them about it, and maybe they will cut it out or at least tone it down. But if it truly has become too much of a trial, perhaps finding another league with some who have similar skills sets or finding new friends may be a way to go. Good luck..true friends shouldn't make you feel like crap.

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